Scripture)
Jabez was more honorable than his brothers; and his mother called his name Jabez, saying, “Because I bore him in pain.” Jabez called upon the God of Israel, saying, “Oh that you would bless me, and enlarge my territory, and that your hand be with me, and that you would keep me from so that it might not bring me pain!” And God granted what he asked.
-1 Chronicles 4:9-10
Observation)
Jabez asks God to change the purpose of his name (meaning pain) He asks for renewed purpose. The power of a name is a great thing, this Jabez understood, but what interests me is that he does not ask for a new one (nor does he receive a new name like many of the patriarchs) rather his life course is altered because of a heartfelt prayer.
Application)
For some strange reason I have had a large dislike of this “Jabez prayer” and have almost avoided it altogether under the guise of what I will call “Christian Hipsterism”…”This passage is just to mainstream for me” this verse almost seemed like a sissy prayer to be honest. But God is doing a new work…The old is made new and God builds a soft teachable heart in me everyday. “You learn something old every day.” -Fred Rogers
Well apparently my middle name isn’t as nice of a meaning as I would hope…James is a derivative of Jacob meaning “supplanter, cheat, underminer” certainly in times past this has been painfully true. But “Bryan” is strong, true, virtuous, noble. These are the two worlds I live in. Needless to say I look forward to a new name.
Returning to heartfelt prayer…God asks that I come before him with a humble and repenting heart, pliable and real with what is within me, the desires, dreams, lusts and nightmares…he wants it all. He does not ask for “Airy” prayers or even for ones that sound good or pious. He asks for my heart. To the point, direct, not playing games. Why do I fear asking God for anything really good? Am I afraid that he can disappoint me? Or do I fear that he does not care…that I do not matter. Why do I feel this way?
Prayer)
Lord would you bless me, cause me to be a blessing to others. May your hand always be with me. Let my life be favorable before you and men. Would you cause all that I put hand on to prosper. I ask that you would give me the wife of my youth, that you would bless us greatly. Grow great love in our hearts Lord. I ask strong foundations and a home that I can call my own. Establish me according to your purpose. I ask for children who would grow to know and love you and would follow after your footsteps. Make me fruitful, help me to multiply. Protect my family and keep my heart pure and my ways true. Make me honorable, honest, noble, strong.
Amen